Opening Up And Finding My Voice… At Last. By @MutteringMummy
Opening Up And Finding My Voice… At last.
What would you do if the person you loved hit you?
What would you do if the person you loved verbally abused you on a daily basis?
What would you do if the person you loved dictated who you could speak to and where you worked?
What would you do if the person you loved made you dinner and then smashed the plate over your head because you didn’t eat it quick enough?
What would you do if the person you loved dragged you through the house by the hair because they didn’t want you sitting on the back doorstep?
What would you do if the person you loved smashed your phone so you couldn’t phone for help when they locked you in the house?
What would you do if the person you loved told you it would be your fault if they had to find another partner and abused them because you had split up with them?
What would you do if the person you loved wouldn’t listen when you told them no when they initiated sex with you?
I always said that I would leave anyone who abused me. I would leave them the very first time that they did it and I would never go back. I was wrong.
It took me 2 years and a lot of heartache to get out of that relationship but I DID IT!! It took a long time for me to trust anyone else not to hurt me. I feel very lucky and honoured that I can now call the one I trusted my husband.
Thanks for reading xx
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Posted on October 12, 2013, in posts by you and tagged abuse, AbusePsychological, domestic abuse, emotional abuse, Emotional Abuse: Not as Obvious as You'd Think, how to spot domestic abuse, insults, making mountains out of molehills, many small voices, Verbal abuse, Violence and Abuse. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.