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It Was The Trumpets

It Was The Trumpets

by @allotmentmum 

It was the trumpets. Always the trumpets. That melancholic, drawn out theme tune, heralding the highlight of her week.   Coronation Street was her only form of escapism.

If he was out, we’d watch it with her. If he was in, we’d hide in our shared bedrooms, pretending to read, or feigning interest in something that wouldn’t arouse his temper. Not seen and not heard was always the best policy. Sometimes even that wasn’t safe.

Thirty odd years later, my partner is channel zapping and it catches me out again. That same brass dirge, this time in HD. The sound snares in my throat. A lump lodges against my trachea like a second Adam’s apple, choking me slightly. Killing me softly.

I see her surrendered to that maroon velvety sofa with the dangly tassels around the hem, the ones the dog hadn’t chewed off.  She’s clutching a tea; not too much milk, second use of the tea-bag. She’d always give him first wring, obeying his orders for a ‘nice brown one.’  How I wish I could have shat in it.

I picture her there now. No doubt the sofa’s changed, though it’s so long since I’ve been there I wouldn’t know what it looks like. For a second I feel like picking up the phone. Dialling the number I once called home. Speaking to the woman I once called Mum, before she lost the capital M.    I resist, knowing it’ll be him who answers. No point trying the mobile either, she keeps it switched off when he’s around, in case he catches her speaking to one of her children. Her own offspring; now more like strangers than babies she once gave birth to.


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2 thoughts on “It Was The Trumpets

  1. Reblogged this on Dandelions and commented:
    Such an emotional and somewhat chilling post from Many Small Voices, raising awareness of domestic abuse.

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