This is something that has come to my attention lately too. Worth a read and remember not to be too hard on ourselves, we are still healing. x
Recently, I’ve been noticing a few personality traits that I now realize are related to my being in an abusive relationship for so long. None of them are new but I am just now seeing how so much of me is netted into this lifestyle. A little over a year ago, I had written a blog post called Survival Mode after reading another blog post (That Wasn’t Me…This Is Me), which triggered an understanding/clarity of how “we” -the abused- get sucked in so deep to a point where we are almost physically and mentally incapable of getting out.
People who have never experienced Domestic Violence or abuse in any form, are typically the ones spewing all the oh so popular catchphrases, such as…Why didn’t she just leave? What those people don’t understand is that it’s so much more than a woman saying, I love him, and then all of a sudden – CURSE…
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